Flipping through the
news stories topping Yahoo headlines today, I noticed one that read: Man Bulldozers Neighbor’s Home
It caught my attention
so I read on. It appears that a man was
upset because a fence blocked him from easily being able to move his logging
equipment in and out of his property, so he wanted to have the fence
removed. Evidentially, there was a dispute
over the fence because several neighbors did not want it removed. Thus, he took his bulldozer and bulldozed the
fence, three homes, a boat and a variety of other items not belonging to him. This is not the part of the story I found
amusing. It is sad and tragic and I am
thankful that in this rampage, no one was physically hurt or killed.
What struck me as
comical is the comment from the man’s brother, who told reporters, “I think he
snapped.”
You THINK he
snapped?! I mean, did we have to stop
and think about whether he was of sound mind when he bulldozed not one, not
two, but three homes?
I’m not one to cast
judgment. I, being part Serbian and part
German, have quite a temper of my own. I
can understand what it feels like to “lose it” or “snap” momentarily. I’ve chucked a deodorant bottle across the
room, put a hole in a wall, broken a glass door from slamming it too hard, and
bunny-footed the passenger side door of a black, Hyundai Scoupe. I’ve thrown a punch or two in my lifetime,
broken a beer bottle over a guy’s head, thrown a chair at my boss and kicked a
man in the nuts as hard as I could. I
get it. People do stupid things out of
anger and I’ve done my share. So, I can
understand bulldozing down the fence. It
was a source of contention and he wanted to destroy it. Hell, if I were there I’d have probably
helped him take the fence down.
But… when he took to the
homes and the boat, he obviously crossed the sanity line.
I feel sorry for the
neighbors who had their home and personal belongings destroyed and I feel sorry
for the bulldozing man as well. Anger is
a powerful weapon and one that leads us all to actions and words we most assuredly
regret afterwards.
What can we learn from
this bizarre bulldozing news bite? Treat
your neighbors with kindness and be considerate of their needs. Compromise when you can and sacrifice to help
one another…because everyone has the ability to “snap” and you don’t want to
wake up with a bulldozer in your living room.
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