Here is an excerpt from a letter I received last night, from someone who found my “This, That and The Other” blog to be distasteful.
“I am offended that you claim to be a follower of Christ and then talk publically about sexual activity and body parts. You should use more discretion.”
I love these people. I love the people in this world that are so stuffy and so set in their ways that they cannot fathom the possibility that someone like me, the sexual-body-parts-writing- blogger, might be sitting in a pew next to them on Sunday morning… and what’s worse is I might have woken up early and had sex before going to church. Gasp!
Somehow, no matter what I write, someone, somewhere always has to bring God into it by saying, "How can you call yourself a Christian and...blah,blah,blah."
Yes, I’m a Christian who talks openly about sex and who complains that my breasts aren’t as perky as I’d like them to be. I’m the Believer who believes that God created us to need human touch, to have a natural sexual curiosity and to crave things that make us feel better and look good.
If my sexual openness offends you as a human being, I apologize. If it offends you as a Christian, then that’s your problem and not mine. I don’t write articles of porn, nor do I post pictures of pornographic images. I may post something sultry or sensual from time to time, but sensuality is a part of who we are as humans. The allure of romance is what draws us closer to one another. Our innate need to feel wanted is what drives us to pursue a suitable partner. We require connection with others in many forms, because we were not designed to be alone.
As for the human body, I believe it is one of God’s most remarkable creations. It’s art. It’s life. It is to be treasured and adored. It is also comedy, especially as we age. I will most assuredly discuss sagging breasts and floppy penises as my number of birthdays increase. It’s who I am and it has nothing to do with my heart for God or the fact that I am a Believer.
The question was: Should I use more discretion? The answer is: Not on my blog. ~